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So I was reading the blogs and its comment made last year..

The hate is real...

And I just find myself stupid . It’s been almost a year and a half since the last time I got on..

I started to question myself..

Why did I got soo emotional over people I barely know or see?

And why would these people throw lots of harsh words toward me?

There were ton of mockery and hate comment against me on my blogs last year.

I started to wonder “what did I do wrong to receive such criticism?”

Reviewing my last year blogs and comment I received I realize,

There are certain things in life that must be ignored.

I think, to me some stuff are just a waste of emotional time...

Leave those who emotionally drains you behind.

Before it makes you become dumber and dumber everyday and time.

Most people who throw hate others usually well..

Either their life just plain suck or really they just enjoy throwing negative comments out of others..

That they barely know or see? LOL.

I think lol. Either way, game is just game. While the people behind the chat box is real.. They still don’t know the real you.. I think.

The text they wrote type and think... Is just bunch of stuff they simply see from the outward layer.

Take it as a grain of salt :D

Life is too short to be sad, unhappy, and really, just making myself (and yourself) be miserable over something... dumb and useless.

Better focus on what’s important and most of all what makes you loved and deserved to be loved.

I think :)
Comments (13)

Kahori Harukawa

Coeurl (Crystal)

In these dark times, enmity must give way to solidarity. Enemies must now become allies as we have a common foe to vanquish. The power of solidarity cannot be underestimated. We must use it right NOW. Thanks for the post.

Serena Sable

Louisoix (Chaos)

Most of those people that had a problem with you, don't even come here anymore, so don't worry.

Tiara Clavaris

Tonberry (Elemental)

I forgot most of them either. I just find myself stupid for getting emotional over some people who I don’t even know or see... LOL.

Serena Sable

Louisoix (Chaos)

It's a perfectly normal and very HUMAN reaction. You wanted to be accepted/feel accepted, and there were people that ain't wanted to do that, so it hurt.

Annabel Ashcroft

Faerie (Aether)

I think a lot of negativity you got was because you were very candid about your life and people were beginning to wonder if what you wrote was real or not. That kind of resulted in a backlash of sorts before you left.

But I hope you are ok and that your life is somewhat together now and you found some peace and happiness in it.

Tiara Clavaris

Tonberry (Elemental)

None of their business . Who are you/they to judge?

Lolo Menehune

Siren (Aether)

Yet you came across judgmental and know-it-all-ish.

I Don't hate you at all, I just react to that part of your personality. Do I have flaws, yep a lot of them. Do you? Absolutely. So no hate here.

Aside for that I enjoyed your fan fiction about your life and your adventures. I believe it was engaging and I was not alone in being drawn in. So yea, like I've said to others...stay, go, your choice. But at the end of the day as long as you are happy with yourself that's all that really matters.

Tiara Clavaris

Tonberry (Elemental)

Think as you please. You are the one who judge me for being knowing it all. That’s in your perspective, not mine. And clearly you only judge me base on text I wrote. And of course, I will do what I love and makes me happy. Why would I do what makes other happy and makes me feel miserable lol. Logic?

Raifur Almasyon

Spriggan (Chaos)

Hello Tiara.

I too have been taking it too much to heart if other people start judge and bash in general. It has been influencing a lot of stuff I do, real and virtual.
But once you grow stronger and find a way to convert it into a thick skin and strength, you'll see, they were the immature ones who deny a part of human nature and therefore are not deserving of your positive traits or show of feels.
And yes, it's important that you do what you love (and not what others want you to do 24/7).

Raifur Almasyon

Spriggan (Chaos)

(Part 2 because letter limit...)

Last words from me. From my PoV, it is totally OK to show emotion, as long as they are real and well-meant... but yes, I am also aware we are in dire times for some aspects of life and one is easily labelled as a 'troll' or 'drama queen' because some aren't using their brains.
Another problem is we cannot read minds reliably so we won't know if the other person is just bashing out of fun or if there's a deeper reason they won't disclose...

Lolo Menehune

Siren (Aether)

"You are the one who judge me for being knowing it all"
I could be petty and quote your words of past, but I will not.
Again, instead of acknowledging you MAY have come across in a condescending way (intentional or unintentional) you chose to get defensive.
Logic, I was conceding that I came off harsh and complementing you on your self love and your self-growth. If you choose to take that in a negative light, well that's too bad. It was meant in a positive admiration.

Lolo Menehune

Siren (Aether)

Anyways, I wish you the best in life, health, and experiences. May you find the happiness around and within.

Tiara Clavaris

Tonberry (Elemental)

I never wanted again to be the kind of person who wanted to be nice to everyone while feeling miserable inside. If you no longer admire me that is none of my problem. I still got plenty of friends both in the game and real life.
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